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![]() ![]() As someone else said your focus should be more about relationships, since we all have to forge a relationship before any sort of physical intimacy.i mean even a one night stand requires you both to communicate your intentions. I think you place far too much value on the virginity thing. Whilst i'm not a virgin, it has been over 13 years since i was intimate with a woman and i feel much like a virgin today, particularly when it comes down to my anxiety around women. I know how you feel and i think most men have been through this at some point, especially growing up as a teen or young adult, the pressure and expectations can be immense. We all should be doing that, and if you need to seek some outside help to work through your issues, please do so. ![]() In the meantime, I work on myself and try to make a difference in others' lives. Those women may be few and far between, but I work to keep a positive attitude about it and believe that the right person will see my "unique" position as a really great thing. That's what makes a man.not how many times he has had sex. Contrary to what you think society desires, there are still women out there who value men with character, integrity, and all of the other positive attributes. I am working on being the best version of myself that I can be, which involves removing all of this negativity I have gotten myself into over the years. I am 33, still a virgin, and very inexperienced with women. But don't lie about it either (that always blows up in your face). Don't be that 0.0001% person though who says on the first date he is a virgin lol. You are capable of change.that's why you are here, right? You're still a virgin.so what. It's never too late for anything to happen as long as you are above ground and breathing, and porn is not the only thing you can have. Most men these days are very conformist and do almost anything to fit in by mainstream society's standards so going your own way, keeping the calm and not letting anyone's labeling get you because of it is a sign of strength, not weakness. That's why most people feel quite comfortable around me and appreciate my company since I have the integrity, stand by my beliefs (even when not popular) and don't pretend to be someone I am not. Those facts alone do indeed make me more of a man than most men since I stand my ground and don't deviate from my beliefs, values, opinions and perceptions.Īlso, I am quite uncomfortable sleeping with women I don't know or have any connection to (the thought disgust me) so I wouldn't gain anything by sleeping around.Ĭontrary to what you might believe, people do in fact not value you because of your previous bedroom experiences but more on your character, actions and contributions to the community and this world. ![]() Click to expand.As the other members above have already pointed out, that "virgin"-label it is all in your own head and mind!!Īlthough I have very little experience myself (at age 31), I don't let that fact impede me, my person, character, manliness, etc. ![]()
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